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Today, let's delving into the captivating field of neuroscience to enhance our grasp of the distinction between reacting and responding in difficult situations. You may be curious about why this is significant. Well, comprehending how our brain functions can empower us to make wiser decisions, especially when emotions are elevated.
Reacting is an automatic, emotional reaction to a situation, often driven by past experiences or fears and usually occurring without much thought. Most of the reactions to situations are anger,fear etc which mostly yield negative outcomes.
In contrast, Responding involves a more deliberate and intentional approach. It requires assessing the situation, evaluating the options, and making a considered choice.
The prefrontal cortex, situated at the front of the brain, is crucial for executive functions. This encompasses decision-making, self-regulation, and problem-solving, all of which are vital for a considered response. In contrast, the more primitive part of the brain, particularly the amygdala, governs our emotional and instinctive reactions. When we're stressed or perceive a threat, the amygdala can essentially dominate or override our brain, resulting in impulsive reactions rather than thoughtful, rational responses.
This is where Daniel Kahneman's concepts of System 1 and System 2 thinking come into play, as outlined in his research and book, “Thinking, Fast and Slow.”
Therefore, the crucial aspect is to recognize when we are functioning under System 1 and learn to activate System 2 when needed.
By grasping the neuroscience behind reacting and responding, we can better control our emotions and make more considered choices, even in the most difficult circumstances.
So, how does it apply to driving ?
What is Reacting ?
Reacting in driving means, when a high risk situation is developing and we do not observe and anticipate, we often react in panic using horn and brakes either due to fear or anger.
These high stress situations during driving invokes the survival mode in our brain and its normally not good as its consequences can be a disaster.
This is a perfectly natural and typical response, involving the activation of the sympathetic nervous system and the triggering of ingrained habits developed over a lifetime of experiences and interactions.
However, such reactions often do not contribute positively to our well-being or safety. If not managed, these responses can lead to increased stress and distraction, and ultimately are not in our best interest when operating a vehicle.
This is where training our mind is required where we can reduce unwanted risks.
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All this behavior comes from past experiences and by observing what’s happening around.
Example, look at this clip where a driver got enraged by another driver cutting him off and he ended up chasing him and ended in a bad crash.
Another example where a driver got angered after someone cut him off.
Some road rage situations arising due to reactions to situations. Another video.
Responding in Driving
Responding means giving out a thoughtful action which is given after critical thinking and carefully evaluating the positives and negatives in a situation.
In a response, the mind stays calm, which aids in understanding the incoming stimulus and doing an action after engaging both the conscious and unconscious mind. It involves reflecting on how the response will affect the environment and others around us.
Responding is not a default behavior of the brain and it must be cultivated.
Responses become automatic when an individual has self-awareness, self-regulation, mindfulness, empathy, and effective social skills.
By responding to a situation, we can create an outcome that is safer and beneficial to everyone around.
How does it apply during driving?
Assume we are driving on the highway and we know that the drivers could cut us off, we will not be surprised.
We will learn that we cannot do anything to change the situation, if the driver had decided to cut us off. Instead of engaging with him in rage, we can let go off him and focus on the big picture, which is keeping ourselves and our passengers safe.
Some examples of responsive behaviour while driving
A few clips from my dashcam to show the responsive behaviour to avoid potential rage.
I know that the car might cut me off, I’m prepared to allow the merge.
An exit/entry is coming and I’m prepared for cutting off by other cars and kept myself at a safe distance.
We all tend to react more frequently than we respond, as responses require deliberate initiation by us whereas reactions are spontaneous.
Although learned, responses enable us to make more informed decisions. Thus, to improve decision-making and foster positive outcomes through our actions, it is always preferable to respond rather than merely react.
3 step process to train our brain to respond than react :
While responding, we are in control of the situation whereas in reactions, outcome could be unknown as we do not know, how the other driver takes our action.
By responding instead of reacting while driving, you can:
Remember, responding takes a moment longer than reacting, but it's worth it for a safer and more enjoyable driving experience!
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