Hi All,
I have been part of Team-Bhp community for more then a decade and have been a consistent reader and enjoyed wisdom and perspective of car enthusiast here.
Few months back I have shifted to San Francisco, USA for Job and planning to stay here for longish time (keeping aside visa situations).
As with the relocation the hunt for car need to be started and I do not have deep understanding of car market here specially during the time when Used car prices gone up too much last year and New cars inventory is all time low.
So please provide advise on what car to buy. Let me pen down some aspect about my personal front which will help folks to advice.
Which car I have owned in India
In India I bought VW Vento 1.6 TDI back in Jan 2011. Build quality, torque, handling of Vento was amazing. I have enjoyed driving that car and continued to own it till Jan-2023 for an entire 12 years till I relocated to USA.
Many of my friend, relatives wanted me to change the car but I could not just sell the Vento and even now I gave it to my cousine so it stays in family.
It was not that difficult to maintain as on yearly basis I just had to invest few days to sort things out and I got a trusted FNG mechanic who has done regular services, suspension work and all other necessary maintenance. I have gotten its service done every 10K KM with best quality engine oil (Liqui Moly Top-Tech or VW 505-01 grade) and stopped going to VW service center since 2015 after my extended warranty was over.
Even after being driven for ~135,000KM, Vento still looks almost as new. So I do keep my cars for around ~15 year or more (If allowed by RTO) and take good care of them.
My wife drives a Hyundai Elite I20 Petrol and we have this with us for 7 years and driven very less ~35K KM.
Car purchasing Priorities
* Eventually we plan to buy two cars here.
Main: One car which would be proper SUV that can be taken on long travels and have enough space for luggage, camping. This definitely need to be hybrid otherwise fuel cost of running SUV would be too much. Possibly a 7-8 seater which gives flexibility in having more people when needed.
Secondary: Can be a compact SUV or sedan. Primary use would be local travel, kids school, groceries and smaller office commute.
* After many discussion with friends and colleagues they recommended to buy "Secondary" car first so that it will be relatively cheaper and would not create too much financial burden (specially now that interest rates are pretty high here and since I just relocated so my credit score will take some time to build). Not to mention popular hybrid cars have crazy waiting period (~ a year or more) and too much dealer markup if one wants to purchase right now. This will also give me 2-3 years and at that time I can get my main car (relatively costly one) as a used one so getting better value.
So with that in mind I am looking for my "Secondary" car as of now.
* We have four member in family. Me, wife and two kids (3-7 years age).
* I am not too much obsessed with SUV/Compact SUV high stance factor, It might be good to have but I enjoy sedans equally for their drivability and stability. People who have better understanding can guide me on their experience driving here about importance of stance, If i am missing any point.
* Do not want to go electric since for some time (~3 years) this will be my only car and with electric having a limited range, I do not want to constantly worry about that range since for initial years this secondary car will also have to do all the duties including outstation travel which can easily be in hundreds of miles. So all the friends who suggested me Tesla, I have rejected their suggestions

Besides I never understood obsession of people with Tesla (or too much technology in cars).
* I will need to have two child seat in rear. Even in India, I used to drive with both kids buckled up in child seats.
* Since I do keep cars for long period so reliability and easy maintenance are important. I do not plan to go german brand here. Of course brands like Toyota, Honda, Mazda etc are preferred and please suggest if there are other good brands.
* In India, my criteria would be 5-star rated cars so that would do the most strict filtering but here since all cars are safe so just mentioning this for sake of completeness. I am definitely cross checking and making sure by reading their crash rating so that car safety is not assumed.
* Planning to buy New. I understand that used car is more value proposition but in this specific current market, used car prices are still high. They have indeed come down in last 1-2 months but still high. So I might just add few more $$ and get that same car as new and keep it for long time. Another reason of going New is I do not have enough time to spend on finding good Used car since need to take care of many things in parallel.
* Need to be only 5 seater. In case someone visit, I can always rent or borrow from friend for time being.
* Budget is as less as needed

. I do have an upper threshold of $35K. I can stretch it more as well but then it is never ending as every few thousands $$ more either there is a higher version of same car or a base version of different car.
Cars Checked by me so far, Please Suggest more
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Toyota Corolla 2023:
- Corolla seems to be an icon here with respect to reliability.
- With 2023 version they have done pretty good upgrade on many areas (exterior styling & interior along with engine being 2.0L, 169HP across all variants).
- Good fuel economy of 35MPG
- Would cost me ~$26K so budget friendly
- Seems to be just about the right size with respect to internal space.
- This can easily run for years and I do not have to worry too much about it.
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Toyota Camry 2023:
- Camry is obviously a better car then Corolla on many aspects with sharing several benefits of being from Toyota.
- Fuel economy would be little less ~30-31MPG
- Cost would be around ~$33K
- Space is pretty good.
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Toyota Corolla Cross 2023:
- Jacked up version of Corolla with high Ground-Clearance and low millage.
- For some reason has not appealed to me that much.
- I will still test drive it for sure but this would only make sense over corolla sedan if Ground-Clearance is huge advantage which I am not sure since road conditions here are pretty good.
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Toyota RAV-4:
- RAV-4 Hybrid is like one of the worlds best selling vehicle. Unfortunately I can only plan to buy a gas-only since too much waiting for RAV-4 Hybrid.
- I have not test driven it so will update the thread OR make up my mind about RAV-4. If someone has first hand experience than let me know.
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Honda Civic:
- Liked the looks, interior and felt better.
- Driving was also pretty good.
- Honda is also a very reliable brand so I have no worry from this point as well.
- Might cost me a bit more then corolla, somewhere around $30K and instinctively it then competes with Camry on value proposition because price difference is not too much.
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Honda CR-V:
- Test drove friend's CR-V.
- Definitely looks like a very all round car.
- Cost would be around $35K. Bit on higher side then I would have liked for secondary car.
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Honda Accord:
- I have not test driven it yet.
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Mazda CX-5, CX-50, Sedan 3:
- Amazing interior quality and driving dynamics.
- Feels more engaged.
- Seriously killer looks
- Only fear I have is based on reviews I saw many people complaining about their low fuel efficiency. No one in my friend circle have them so cannot even validate this claim.
These are the only cars I checked online, taken test drive of several of them and will be making a decision in a 2-3 weeks time.
Interestingly this is creating three sub category and summary problem statement goes like this
From utility perspective a car which would be used as only car for first ~3 years and post that will become a secondary car with limited usages. For a family of 4 which category makes more sense?
1) Sedans like Corolla, Civic etc? Which might have just about enough space for four people with two child sears and later on you can spend saved money in getting next car.
2) Sedans like Camry, Accord etc? Which have ample space and even after 3 years can easily do all sort of duties with ease. You spend more but also get more value.
3) Compact SUV like CR-V, RAV-4, Subaru Forester etc? Same logic as camry/accord but form factor is Crossover. Do people suggest that high ground clearance is must?