Our return leg was less eventful, as one may imagine. We did not want to rush home. Instead, we made night halts at Patni Top because we wanted to ride the
gondola there and Jalandhar, which is exactly halfway between Patnitop and my house in Sonipat.
A word on the road conditions. Between Delhi and the Chenani- Nashri Tunnel on the NH 44, roads are impeccable. Dual carriageways throughout Punjab and well into Jammu. There may be a few stretches of undivided roads. However, we counted innumerable landslides between Chanderkote and Banihal. Expect to add atleast an hour and a half to the estimate that Google Maps will give you. Beyond Qazigund, the roads are butter-smooth all the way to Srinagar.
Roads in the Jhelum Valley are generally well kept, especially those maintained by the Border Roads Organisation. There will be the odd- broken patch here are there.
Before I end this travelogue, I'd like to express two opinions which may be debatable. The first concerns hospitality.
I've travelled to quite a few countries and every state in India with the exception of Kerala, Manipur and Mizoram. In most places, without exception, once you have been identified as a tourist or a traveller, people are generally kind and hospitable. In some cases, people will go out of their way to ensure that your stay and travel are as comfortable as possible. In many instances, in Rajasthan, Punjab, MP, Indonesia, Malaysia and Morocco, for example, hospitality is seen as a celebration of sharing one's culture and natural environs with a guest. That, "This is our land and we welcome you to share it with us".
However, I found Kashmiri hospitality generally lacking. Instead of a celebration, the general sense I got was that of tolerance, bordering on mild annoyance, sometimes rudeness. The only time I saw any smiles was when a hotel staff was expecting to be tipped.
This wasnt the case with everyone we met though. For example, the owner of the Akbar Hotel is a kindly old gentleman with whom I had a lovely conversation. An old gentleman who owns a leather goods shop on Bund Road offered my mother a place to sit and some water in the middle of a hot Srinagar afternoon.
I'm not implying that Kashmiris are inhospitable. I'm simply saying that they're less hospitable than other states. I suppose one might be irritable and annoyed too, having lived under military watch for most of their lives.
Of course, I might be mistaken. It might simply be that we were unlucky to meet the wrong people and stay at the wrong places. I'm happy to be corrected on this.
The second issue is that of affordability and the level of service. I understand that many parts of Kashmir are open for tourism for only some months of the year. And that whatever earnings one gets from those few months must last the entire year. I understand also, that the pandemic has been tough on tourism (as it has on many other industries). However, for the prices we saw and payed on various travel aggregator platforms, we simply didnt get the level of service for that price.
Perhaps Kashmir is overpriced, but worth it?