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Originally Posted by discoverwild How is your father now and how is he managing the dialysis?
My father (64) has been asked to undergo dialysis now and have been reading about it. |
Hi Suraj,
First & foremost, neither you nor your Dad should think of dialysis as a stigma. It is actually a GOOD thing as it removes all the junk from the body. Don't let any friends or relatives have you believe otherwise. We used to think it's a big deal...but medical science has moved on. People do it before work, after work and even during work. Papa now thinks of dialysis as his 4 hour workout.
Some tips:
- Be sure to read this thread inside out. Folk have shared wonderful information here.
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This is an excellent Indian-oriented Dialysis website.
- Ask your Doctor (and take a second opinion) if your Father is fit enough for a kidney transplant.
- A clean dialysis center is mandatory, as is a good nephrologist. Go out there and see the options available. More than distance, it should be a center / doctor that your Dad is comfortable with. It's VERY important for him to like the Doctor, the place and the people.
- There is a service in Mumbai called Apex Kidney Center who offer dialysis at home. The machine is installed @ 15K / month and each dialysis costs Rs. 1,500. The technicians are A+ and they will come at whatever time you want. We did try this for a couple of months; eventually, Papa wanted to go back to the hospital environment because there was a kind of support system there (company with other dialysis patients etc.). Check if there is a similar service available in your city (though I'd recommend starting off at a proper dialysis center under supervision).
- You & your family need to provide max psychological support to your Dad (key word is support, not pity). The first 2 - 3 months are the most difficult as it entails a change in schedule, the body is undergoing changes, controlling fluid intake etc. You or another family member should accompany him the first couple of times. I went with Dad for each and every dialysis for the first 6 - 7 months.
- Make sure your Dad leads a normal life (dialysis aside). He should work, he should play, he should hang out with the family over weekends (restaurants, movies, drives etc.). Again, I reiterate : Dialysis is a GOOD thing and he should understand that.
- During the initial period, be sure to doubly check his sugar & pressure before bringing him home.
- While he's at the dialysis center, don't let him sit idle. He should read, listen to an iPod or whatever. But do NOT let him sit idle. He can also have snacks while the dialysis is in process
- Not easy, but your father will have to adjust to limited fluid intake. Tough at first, becomes a part of life later. The key is to have "sips" and not gulps. We don't have juices, cola etc. around him at home.
- He will have to eat super healthy food and also mild exercise (if he can). Dialysis isn't perfect; along with the bad, it does remove some good stuff from your body too. Diet should be low on protein & potassium.
- Whatever happens, don't bunk a dialysis section. It can & will completely throw the body off balance. We've seen that, if Dad misses a single session, his body bloats up, he loses his appetite and also gets breathless. Of course, sometimes its unavoidable (the recent funeral of a prominent politician meant we couldn't move out of the house), but you should try to minimise this as much as possible.
Good luck to your Dad!