Everything Kids - Tips and tricks They make the world look so very beautiful with their wonderful smile and innocent and simplified outlook towards even the life's most complicated matters. They shower their love with utter selflessness and the have ability to make you temporarily forget even the worst of your sorrows with a great big hug and a kiss and blow away all your days tiredness with a single smile and the manner in which they come flying into your arms.
This thread is dedicated to all those members who have young children at home and are expecting to be a parent sooner or later. This thread is to share any inputs or tips that would help you understand your child better, and inturn find the child in you. We could share some useful tips such as what do you do when a child is being extensively irritating at times , what if he is stubborn excessively, how do you treat a common cold, who are the good pediatrics in your locality, what are the good schools around your place, some of remedies for common ailments for children etc..etc and the list goes on.
I have a son ,aadi (aaditya roshan), who is 5 years old and what more can I say, my world revolves around him and is truly the apple of my eye. I had the opportunity to make a lot of money staying away from him on an prolonged assignment to the US, but I gave it up just because I couldnt stay away from him even for a single day. He is just too adorable and no matter the stress levels accumulated from office and other daily activities, the moment he runs into my arms after i return home, I forget everything else and he infuses a lot of energy into me despite being totally fagged out.
Ok here are some tips from my end. Good toy shops around bangalore :- Sapphires (both on brigades and the new one close to lifestyle)
- The shopping malls such as oasis, star, garuda also have some good choices of toys at reasonable prices.
Good pediatricians around koramangla:- Dr. Vinod (this is his residence/clinic which is bang opposite the church near sony world junction). He charges 200 bucks per visit i guess.
- Dr. Vasant (his clinic is close to viveknagar bus stop circle, but if you want to see your child get a quick releif then he is not the right person since he does not believe in giving medicines to children. Which in one way is very good, but sometimes you cannot bear to see your child suffer for too long)
Some random tips- Educate your child on the importance of hygene. Encourage them to wash their hands as often as possible.
- Carry a good hand sanitizer always.
- Carry wet wipes and paper napkins. Get the child used to using these rather than cloth napkins.
- Avoid aerated drinks/coffee/tea at any cost and fruit juices while out on a trip. Water is the cause of most child ailments. My wife always carries a packet of "tang" in her bag. If the child insists on juice in restaurants then all you need to ask for is clean bottled water and some sugar.
- Be very careful when it comes to chosing dresses and shoes. The child in most cases doesnt even realize the discomfort till we notice it. Your child might complain of leg pain maybe caused by an uncomfortable shoe/sock or you can see body rashes because of the fabric. So as far as possible ensure that the outfits are comfortable and airy.
- For chest congestion, steam inhalation is probably a best cure and is suggested by most doctors. These units are available in almost all major medical stores at the price of 200 Rs approx.
- once or twice a week, give the child a good oil massage(I use johnsons baby oil) and bath possibly with a couple of drops of nilgiri oil. It is a great disinfectant. Bangaloreans on a visit to ooty , can get this and a 250 ml can come for a good 6-7 months. I can let you know of a place where I get it whenever i visit the place.
- Encourage good sitting posture. A lot of kids I have seen have the habit of eating food on the beds or watching TV lying down which is not good. Spend a little bit to get a good chair for your child and a study table too and equally worth it to spend a few hundred bucks to get a good study lamp.
- Encourage the child on out-door games rather than indoors. Physical activity helps the child to gain better health, and also an opportunity to mingle with other children. Take them out to parks often. I take my child pretty often to the koramangala childrens park near bethanys. TV and video games to be avoided as far as possible. If your wife is a TV addict then make sure you take the kids to a separate room and play with them.
- Keep the TV and radio decibels low. Kids are very sensitive to loud noises. Speak low while you address your child and encourage others around you child to keep the decibels low while talking
- If you are planning to go out on a long ride on your bike then get a good face mask to avoid too much of smoke inhalation and always give the child a good face and body wipe after that. The smoke, dust and fuel residues can cause a lot of skin issues and eye problems
- Start your childs day with a big glassful of milk or a healthy milkshake.
- Though most kids are averse to vegetables, its upto the parents to make the vegetables interesting. The dishes too can be made intersting. I give palak with chappati and each bite of chappati is an assumed fighter jet or an UFO which the monster is suspposed to swallow up . Children can be made to eat the food that they dont dislike, it all depends on how you can improvize on your feeding techniques. My son likes to eat salads, so i try to mix things he dislikes such as palak, ladys finger etc ,mixed with salads.
- Whenever you travel, make sure you carry the essential medical kits such as bandaid, savlon, pediatric paracetomol, digestion syrup,Benadryl etc. Kids are very sensitive to climate, water, air etc, so its always helpful to carry such emergency items.
- Make studies interesting. Simple things like math can be taught by day to day activities such as additions/subtractions using his toy cars, or biscuits etc. Mind you, the children have a capablity to learn much more than what we percieve. When you give a child some homework make sure you mark a good or very good with a small shiny star of intersting stickers. It makes things more interesting for your child and at some level you too love the teacher in you by doing this. Didnt we all like to see the goods , very goods and the stars in our homeworks or tests when we were children?
- Make sure you answer to your kids queries. Their inquisitiveness is their way of learning this world. But again a lot of discretion is required here on the subject on which he is seeking clarification. Most queries may sound stupid or irritiating , but keep in mind that its probably because your child is experiencing such things first time in his/her life and looks up only to you primarily to clarify.
- non vegetarians, while making your non-veg dishes, please keep aside the soup. The soup is pretty much liked by most kids and is also very healthy for the child.
- For children during the nappy years, please watchout for nappy rashes. If the child is highly irritable and incosolable then need to look for the same first . If found irritable immediately after food then its probably because of his urge to burp. for small children, they need to be picked up and patted gently on their backs to get the burp out.
- While on long drives , carry his/her portable potty, most urban kids now are used to european style potties and the indian ones can be quite a challenge and the european ones are more hygenic too. Also carry boiled water and pack your home made food and nick nacks and avoid feeding child in the restaurants en-route.
- Educate the importance of wearing the seat belts and educate them on road safety and the necessity to be with an elder while crossing roads or while playing on streets.
- Let the chocolates and ice-creams remain as treats only and only given to them once a while. Keep them as rewards for a job well done like how it was when we were children. Some old tricks still work.
- Avoid junk food at any cost, eventhough your kid might find them the yummiest and will try all possible tricks to get their share of junk food. But dont deny them these simple pleasure of life and let them indulge in the occassional burger or pizza. Againd keep these outing as rewards for a job well done or for good behaviour
- Dont let you child to take things for granted. Make sure you kids know the value of toys, and value of being well mannered.
- Encourage kids to share. To do that ask him to share things with you or your wife or others at home. Get him used to the concept of sharing so that he will do the same when he goes out. Its just a mental block with the child the he/she wants everything for himself/herself.
while we are at it, can someone let me know if i can download any free bedtime stories from the net? my son is no absolutely bored stiff with the same stories but with different variations. Right now i am out of stories to tell my child while putting him to sleep. Any help will be highly appreciated.
These are just a few random thoughts that i have shared with you and in no particular order. These are a few inputs from what I have gathered in my 5years as a parent. Some of my views can be wrong, so please spare me for that.
Expecting to hear a few more tips and tricks from more senior folks. Any pediatric or child phychiatric in this forum who would wish to nominate themselves as agony aunts/uncles for queries on childs health and behaviour. ??
Last edited by Rotorhead : 24th February 2010 at 15:33.
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