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Originally Posted by amol4184 Condolences and prayers for you. Dealing with such loss is a life altering process. I lost my dad during Covid and my life will never be same again.
I am going to copy and paste that comment here for better visibility but the original text can be found here. I am not taking credit for this absolutely incredible piece of advice. Its beautiful.
Just reading this comment again has me choking a little. |
The reddit post has absolutely been a great metaphor to deal with Life and Grief of Loss. I felt so overwhelmed reading your story and then this reddit post. It feels like despite being unknown, we humans are so vulnerable and so much emotional. Reading them feels like I myself have lost an extended family member. My deep condolences to you. Wish you strength and inspiration.
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Originally Posted by Totoro11 This thread appeared at a perfect time for me. My mother passed away few weeks back while i was away for work. Rituals kept us occupied for two weeks but now the absence starts to bite. |
My sincere Condolences to you as well. You are correct, when we are busy in our chores, time and memories take a back seat. But it is on those real conscious moments when we have introspect ourselves as simple living beings and not as any Employee, Boss, Manager, Community Lead, etc that we realise you beautiful yet fragile this journey of life is!
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Originally Posted by dailydriver Last year had been a bit tough on me. Lost four close family members and a well wisher at regular intervals. While their departure didn't affect my day to day life, their sudden disappearance created a vacuum that has been rather difficult to fill in.
But every time I go into melancholy thinking about them, I take recourse in the timeless tale of Kiss Gotami's encounter with the Buddha and try to move on. |
My sincere condolences to you and wish you strength.
This is really a good philosophical take. I shall adhere to the teachings. Thanks.
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Originally Posted by HIGHWAY_PATROL Just yesterday I was reading the below poem and thought of sharing it here.
Source: Saba Mahjoor's Instagram Post |
The last para of our parents waiting for us to sleep, is so emotional, full of pure love. Ached my heart even thinking of it.
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Originally Posted by Ganapathy
Adieu I miss you Mumse!! . |
You really have been a dutiful and worthy child of taking care of your Mom through all phases. I am sure not only us, even other Moms shall envy you of being so caring child. The last phase of her life with you feels like you have "repaid with interest" all the affection and parenting that your Mom did for your upbringing right from when you were born by parenting her back.
I remember a thought, I came across, that during childhood, you cry as your parents bathe you, and during their old age, when you bathe them, both cry.
Going to my confessions, I too feel that I have done great great injustice to my parents. While they are always proud of me as being a good person more than anything else, during the last 4-5 years I have been on constant battle with them + not communicating with them as I feel they are yet to realize their mistake. Its the mistake of judging my girlfriend to be the wrong person.
I might be naive, but as far my rational brain works, I am not wrong in choosing her. She is genuinely a nice person and that I love her is not something to be taken aback. I have chosen her and she has chosen me in our right minds purely on character. But my parents are yet to understand this. I have provided ample opportunity to make the Two meet/ talk, but they are more into "She is influencing you".
Part of this retaliation from mother is also because its the first time in Life I have decided on my own(which shall obviously bear a permanent impact on my life).
Reading above loss stories, I really wonder weather I will get ample opportunity in this life, to share them all care, concern, happiness, love and make them really enjoy their life to the fullest. For I am already with lot of guilt of not sharing with them and missing the last 6+ years of our lives .