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Senior - BHPian ![]() | Re: Steps to free yourself: Do it today! Quote:
After taking a break from social media apps and WhatsApp during my engineering days, I realised grimly that you will need these sooner or later. So now I use a 2 phone system. Both Whatsapps are installed in the secondary phone and that phone is kept away during me time (gym, cycling, weekends and so on...). The Whatsapp groups with too much chatter and nonsense are moved to the secondary phone which I check maybe 2 times a day (that too only if I'm tagged). During travel, I use my iPod and iPad for entertainment which doesn't have any internet. This way I end up saving battery life as well. ![]() Today, I see most of my friends constantly on the phone. This phenomenon has sadly spread to uncles and aunts as well, who do it as their kids do the same. Meal times are always with phones vibrating and quick swipes between each spoonful. Some even take phone to the loo and end up spending a lot more time there than needed. I can't remember the last time I saw people reading a book in the park, or just chatting without the constant checking of a phone. Go to any car show / museum / new launch and you will rarely see anyone actually appreciation the showcased product. Most are happily snapping away with the hopes of getting it first out on Instagram / Facebook / Snapchat. | |
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| Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction Members having OnePlus phones can take advantage of the newly introduced "Zen Mode" Detailed write up on how it works https://www.androidauthority.com/zen...neplus-987246/ |
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Senior - BHPian | Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction I realised the digital addiction and the associated stress that comes, to a large extent from social media and to a lesser extent from TV, about 3 years back and here's what I did, step by step, to reclaim some of my time and life - 1. Started off by deleting my Facebook account about 3 years ago. The initial 1-2 months were painful (psychologically), but it gradually got better. The urge to reinstate my account was great during the first 6 months or so, but I persisted and today I find FB repulsive whenever I glance at it on my wife's phone. 2. Then about 2 years back I stopped watching TV - Period. No TV, no Netflix, no PrimeVideo, no GoT, no NEWS etc.... Rather, I spent that time in the gym or reading books or playing with my daughter. If I do have to watch something, then it is on YouTube and I 'PULL' the 1 or 2 short videos that I watch in a day. 3. Then, in a sudden spurt about a year back, I exited about 30+ WhatsApp groups. Since then, I was able to go to sleep on time and didn't need to be glued to my phone as much. 4. Recently about 2 weeks back, I disabled 'Blue ticks' on WhatsApp. I had tried this once earlier but had reinstated the ticks in about a week. This time it's gone for good. I don't want to be pulled into responding to anything or anyone unless I choose to. I want to be in control of whether and when I have any conversations, if at all. Many friends, and even my wife aren't happy, but it is what it is. My life, my rules. 5. Still to do - Need to uninstall Clash of Clans from my device. That still takes a substantial amount of time everyday, but I really love playing that game. I will do this too however, because the urge to spend even more time reading is getting bigger by the day. Fingers crossed. |
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Agree with you on the rest of your post. People are turning into digital zombies. Thankfully, I don't have the habit of checking my phone when I'm with my friends or I'm visiting some friends. I get really irritated when I'm talking to someone in real life, and that person just pulls his phone out and starts using it mid-conversation. Quote:
1. Done. Nowadays though, a lot of things are based on Facebook. I recently applied for an internship at a magazine, and one of the requirements there was having a Facebook profile! I got tempted for a bit, and then decided to look elsewhere. 2. I haven't watched TV since 2015, and I watch Netflix/Prime only when there's a specific movie that I want to watch. No TV shows since they take up a lot of time. However, I watch YouTube videos during breakfast, lunch and dinner. Need to work on this. 3. I don't talk to anyone on WhatsApp, but I still end up checking the various groups. It's nothing serious though, and I don't compromise my sleep for it. 4. Hehe, I disabled my 'Last Seen' and blue ticks back when they were first introduced in 2015! For me, it was just easier to tell people "Sorry, haven't had the time to check my phone" than "I didn't want to waste my time talking to you" 5. Thankfully, I never played CoC or PUBG. People my age spend all day on those apps though, and I don't really understand why. Hope you get rid of it very soon! | ||||||||||||
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| Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction I turned off notifications from most applications last year and muted all non-work related Whatsapp groups. It helped me reduce my cell phone and social media usage. YouTube is something I'm still grappling with. Once one starts, down the rabbit hole one goes. I have experienced that turning off the "Watch" and "Search" history does help here too as it reduces the relevancy of videos that YouTube offers up. |
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BHPian ![]() | Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction Well I don't use social media apps now apart from WhatsApp (that too for communication only). Two things I am addicted to is team bhp and YouTube. I can't ignore videos on electronics, automobile and diy stuff. I guess using a smartphone for long hours has taken a toll on my eyes and it's now difficult to see properly without glasses. |
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| Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction Most of us over here are addicted to our phones and I am sure we all want to get rid of this addiction but the fear that "we will be disconnected from the world" is what stops us from taking any preventive measures. Thank you for creating this thread and making us realize that it's about time that we stop becoming slaves to our technology! |
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BHPian ![]() | Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction Well I must confess my only digital addiction is "TBHP" ![]() We grew up playing cricket, hockey and football. Being in the IT industry for almost 25 years now, I can certainly vouch that getting addicted to a device or technology is quite easy, however its completely an individual choice on how you make the most of your available time when you are not staring at any digital device! Off late I started to read again after a very long time and also spending some quality time on my bike and car! Well this is after the time that is available post family time ![]() |
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| Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction A real problem which I see around me a lot. I am glad to say that I am part of the minority that are considered dinosaurs in this age. My primary phone is still a BlackBerry Bold 4 and is good for calls, text, email and BBM. It is on a BIS plan and it can do some amount of website visiting as well. TeamBhp has its own set keyboard shortcut and it is one thing I am addicted to; however, thanks to the extremely curated content, there is no need to be glued to it day and night. My other phone is a BlackBerry Priv and this one handles the new stuff. I m not on Facebook and things like Instagram, Reddit, Twitter are alien to me. I use the Priv mainly for WhatsApp, Google maps, calling cabs and handling my phone numbers via their Apps. That's about it. Given the nature of my work, I have to do a lot of studying to ensure that I m in tune with the latest developments in my field so this leaves me with little time to do non productive things. My 4 year old terrorist takes up the rest of my time. I usually schedule my me time when I m travelling; I take advantage of airport lounges, stay at hotels near my offices, fly airlines that offer convenient timings and buy seat upgrades so I m assured of my comfort and can read my books in peace. My parents inculcated the habit of reading books and I am still consumed by them. The ability of words to capture your imagination and send you on a journey into another world and give you happiness and sadness is simply amazing! To the OP, I would like to congratulate you on your decision to undertake the no surf program. I wish you all the best! Last edited by N33raj : 12th September 2019 at 18:46. Reason: Editing for better readability |
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| Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction Wow. This is something which I can relate to very closely. I am also addicted to internet, mainly Tbhp & Quora. I alternate between these two websites whenever I get a moment of free time. Fortunately this has not reached a point where it has caused direct negative effects on my worklife or family life. At least I'm able to get things done which needs to be get done. I took a step by step approach to reduce my social media usage. Reduced facebook, now I open it approx once a month for 5-10min Made sure that I never get used to the UI of Insta , thereby avoiding it completely. Exited most unwanted groups in WhatsApp. Muted status of many people in WhatsApp who are habitual status posters. Unfollowed all interesting topics in quora, almost stopped opening it. But nowadays I'm opening it again. Will be stopping from today. Never installed any other messaging apps other than WhatsApp Uninstalled all news apps other than one good quality paid news magazine. Stopped reading travelogues in tbhp unless the place is somewhere I want to go in near future. Stopped reading tbhp reviews of luxury cars since I'd not be buying any in near future. |
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| Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction I can completely relate to it. I was in the same situation till I decided to control my digital life. Facebook is utter trash and I have really started hating it. What I have started hating is the fact that they keep tracking your each and every action. I mean it's a known thing but it's absolutely shameful that we fall prey to it. I uninstalled the facebook app two weeks ago and ever since then, it's been bliss. I am even thinking of going ahead and deleting my FB account. The only thing which I feel is useful is WhatsApp. That is an incredibly useful tool to keep in touch; but unless you control the urge to view those messages, it can get quickly addictive too. I have turned off the notifications and also, changed the setting on my phone, not to show any notifications on the lock screen. Plus, in the office; I strictly keep my mobile data off and the phone on silent. These things have really helped me cut down my time on the mobile devices. |
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| Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction I don't know if I can say that I was addicted or not. But I ended up deleting my FB acocunt. Today, I don't regret it. those who matter will pick up the phone and call you. Ditto social media. Deleted everything. Ended up getting more productive. But to run a business in india you still need whatsapp. WA was my biggest headache. I am in so many groups at one point in time I would actually go through a few thousand messages a day. My solution to it.... Went back to using a crappy nokia. Use whatsapp via bluestacks deliberately on a crappy slow computer. This way I am not tempted to stay online in WA all day long. I check it once in the morning for messages, once in afternoon after lunch and once in the evening. That's it. never last more than a few minutes as I start to hate the slow pc. |
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| Re: Help yourself: Freedom from digital addiction Very nice post & absolutely relevant to today's world. I'm sure people don't realise they've become addicted to technology until someone points it out or they're neck deep in it. Heck, even I think I suffer from initial symptoms in that I tend to mindlessly browse through the internet, Twitter, Instagram or some other app, without any rhyme or reason. The only way out of this is to firstly acknowledge that there's a problem, then find other constructive activities to minimise the addiction. I've found that being busy with my work makes me forget about my mobile & laptop, which is a good thing. |
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![]() Same pinch, sir. I spend close to ~2 hours on Team-BHP daily, which I think is a lot. It would've been useful had I been reading new stuff, but in a lot of cases I just end up rereading old threads that I've read multiple times previously. Kudos to you for taking up reading now. Although reading can turn into an addiction too (ask me lol), atleast it's way less harmful than our screens and the internet. Quote:
I love reading books too, but often that too takes up a lot of time. Now time spent reading books isn't necessarily 'wasted', but definitely so if it is done at the cost of my other work. I guess it is a problem with my behaviour. Quote:
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UPDATE: I've cleaned all useless apps from my phone (Screenshot attached below). Unfortunately, Google Chrome still remains my most-used app (TBHP) and I don't feel like disabling it thinking that I'll need it to search for something at some point. ![]() | ||||||||||
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