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Originally Posted by V.Narayan  Yaaaaahhh!!! I have just mailed this video to my wife. This is my future.
Jeroen, my wife may call you and give you a piece of her mind
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Those of you who have read my posts over the years will know that I will jump at the merest of chance of defending women. I do believe, that in many ways and many aspects they are getting the short end of the stick so to speak.
However, and I know many will consider this a very sexist, male chauvinist point of view, but it needs saying. And I am not making these comments lightly, but only after decades of totally unbiassed observation and fist hand experience.
WOMEN AND SCALE MODELS DO NOT MIX!
There, I have said it!!! Let me explain. I was the only son, with three sisters. So obviously, my mum thought everything I did was utterly and totally brilliant. No argument.
I was very much into model building. She absolutely loved the various models I made. She would call her sisters (my aunts), her brothers (my uncles),the neighbours, friends to talk about my model brilliance!
But then she would also believe that all these model needed dusting on a very regular basis. Some of our more enlightened members might be familiar with the works of John Grey, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Let me be blunt, John knows s@#T all. He does not even broach the subject of scale modelling.
Even though I pleaded, begged with my mum not to touch my models, she always did. Here is the fundamental difference between men and women. Men will see an unique scale model. We will rant and rave about the detailing, we will write long posts on internet forums about this particular aircraft, we will describe its capabilities in nauseating detail. We will know the name of every pilot that ever flew this aircraft. We will know the names of their first born son. We can recite the airframe numbers of this version in our sleep!
A woman will look at this very scale model and all she sees is a dust trap!!!
Which needs cleaning!
My mum, despite endless pleading, would feel the urge to clean the dust of my models on a fairly regular basis. Which meant my models would loose parts of their landing gear, guns, radio- radar antenna's, external fuel tanks,canopies and even the occasional wing etc. Real air war fare would be considered prett average in terms of damage, compared to what havoc my mum would cause!!
I mean what can you do, this is your mum after all. And she would not leave it at just dusting and breaking bits and pieces off either. It would be followed up by some proper hoovering. Meaning all your bits and pieces would now be gone, permanently!!
When you marry or get yourself into some sort of permanent relationship with somebody of the female persuasions, things improve only marginally.
No man, has ever dared to challenge/step up to his mum. But with your female partner you might, at least, agree some boundaries up front!
So here is a bit of advise: Yes, you might be in love, and obviously, she is lovely, brilliant, caring etc. But you have to put your foot down early here. She must commit to and agree to never ever to interfere with your hobbies!! Ever!! Ever!!
If she wants to dust your scale models, she does not really love you!! It is the brutal truth, it must be said!!
Men enjoy hobbies in very different ways from women. That is just a fact, so better adjust accordingly!
You need a good well understood excuse for her not to interfere or to challenge your hobby, financially, dusting, hoovering or otherwise!
Let me give you an example on how my wife and I agree on all my spending on my hobby: I had just bought my Alfa Romeo Spider and was very, very proud of it. One day I had been driving it for a bit and as I was turning into our street on my way home, my wife Frances was seeing out a very good (American) friend of hers. As they were saying their goodbyes I pulled up in my “Red Hot Spider”. The American friend looked at me. I could see her thinking, he will be forty next year. She then put her arm around my wife and spoke the legendary words: Don’t worry to much dear, it is much better than a skinny blond!!
Since, whenever I need something doing to the Spider, or need parts or tools I wil put the choice to my wife: You want me to buy some new tires/brakes/tools or shall I get myself a skinny blond?
Since then every single euro gets approved with no argument, none whatsoever!!
Jeroen
PS1: Do not let your wife/female partner anywhere near your scale models. Nothing good will come out of it. If anything you will suffer, so be aware!!
It is not that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Women just don’t understand our hobbies. Period. The only thing that might work, tell them if they love you, they would not deprive you of the next scale model!
PS2: I had not realised the Hawk was in use by the Americans?? Let alone it was build under license. Anorak fact: my bother in law was heavily involved in the development of the various electronic systems of the Hawk and he spend several years in India getting the localised production going.