Interesting thread and quite a few different views whether it makes sense. At the end of the day it is probably a very personal choice and more than financial considerations do come into play.
Our situation is somewhat different having lived abroad for almost eight years away from our home in the Netherlands. But all that time we also had a holiday home in Suffolk, UK. We have owned our current home in the Netherlands for about 23 years, have just sold it and will be moving to a new home in the Netherlands. Our second home as we like to call it we have owned for probably some 15 years.
For us it was part financial, part practical, part emotional, part cultural etc. Lots of different reasons. My wife was born in the UK and we lived and owned a home in Brighton, UK during the early 80's. We sold that, moved to the Netherlands, moved several times and several international posting.
Around the turn of the century with our kids sort of entering teenage years, my wife and I decided we wanted to have a small holiday home in the UK as well. We often go there, we have lots of friends and family and we like to stay in the UK. So we decided on a home in Suffolk. Very easy access for us by night Ferry.
The UK property market has had its ups and downs as well. But in general, it outperforms the Dutch property by a very large margin. At the time we were still contemplating on retiring in the UK at some point in the distant future. With house prices sky rocketing it made sense to make sure to get onto the property market.
For several years my wife held a consultancy post working for the NHS, so she would pop over for long weekends, work on Friday and Monday for the NHS and the rest of week back in the Netherlands doing her regular job. Interestingly enough all travel, including the travel, was tax deductable for Dutch income tax. So a very attractive arrangements.
So we had/have many reasons for having a second home. It's just a small terraced house. A friendly neighbour looks after it when we are not there. We sometimes lend it to friends and families. Also, the neigbour and his wife have lots of family. When they come to visit them, they can use our home as well.
We never have any problems having to clean or repair anything when we arrive. In fact, as it gets used very little, or by friends who make sure it is left in immaculate condition when they leave, I would say it's probably in better condition than our main residence.
Yes, it does cost quite a bit. Council tax, electricity, water, gas, Internet/TV, some regular maintenance etc. We are very fortunate to be able to afford it. We have even invested in a second property in Suffolk which is permanently rented out. The rent easily pays for all the running cost of our second home these days.
And no, we never feel compelled to go to the UK, just because we our second home there. We travel an awfull lot outside the UK and the Netherlands as well.
Some people enjoy having a caravan, or a camper, or a yacht. Financially probably just like the second home. It's very unlikely you will make so much use of it that renting a caravan, camper, yacht wouldn"t make more sense.
Still, people (including me) do invest in these sorts of things. But rarely with a view of financial advantages only. (at least not us)
We love our little second home. Not sure what will happen with its value. What with the exchange rate UKP/Euro and Brexit. So we just enjoy it whilst we can.
We often use our second home for family gatetherings/parties. So even when we were in India when we flew to the Netherlands, stayed there for a few days and then hopped over to the UK for our Christmas holiday. Our kids would join us in the UK too.
Jeroen